You want to approach a girl but have no idea what to tell her, does that sound familiar?
I know, it happens a lot of times…but here we go: I’ll help you with this 😉
But first, let me tell you something important…
Are PUA Openers So Important?
The pickup line you’re using isn’t as important as you might think, there are other things that will sway your outcome.
For example, if your body language shows you’re open and sure of yourself you’ll have way better chances than if you’re slouching over with terrible posture.
The same applies to the tone and volume of your voice, if its bold and clear you’ll have better chances of getting a positive result from women.
Actually, these are the two main things that you can do to approach a girl successfully.
As I’ve said many times here on Efficacious Seduction, your mentality and attitude are really important.
Adopting the right attitude will help you go from 0 to 100 in just a few seconds!
Naturally, the question that comes to mind is: what is the right attitude?
It’s that of a man that is successful with women and that wants to have fun without worrying too much about their reaction. It’s that of a man that is genuine and sure of himself, one that isn’t afraid to clearly show when he wants something.
To take on this attitude you’ll need to work on your own personal growth and self improvement…but no one is prohibiting you from using some “tricks” to help you experience what it’s like being in the shoes of the type of man I just described.
There are certain ways to evoke emotions and/or feelings rather easily.
One of these ways is aptly using the power of language.
Language is extremely powerful if used appropriately. Just think of the saying “The pen is mightier than the sword” that refers to the power of words.
Using suitable words will help you evoke certain emotions and/or feelings.
That’s exactly why I want to recommend these 10 controversial and and juicy pickup lines. So that you can allow yourself to evoke those feelings of excitement, that sense of challenge and self confidence already in you that will help you to meet women.
Take note: I’ve used all the following pickup lines successfully, they all work, so long as you’re in the right frame of mind. So let yourself go, leave your worries behind, live in the present and just dive in. You will be pleased with the results.
10 Controversial and Juicy PUA Openers
1. You’re sexy, you should talk to me.
When using this phrase your confidence and defiant attitude are essential.
Just imagine you’re saying something along the lines of “I think you’re hot and I have the balls to say it to your face…now let’s see if you can reject me.”
2. You’re the only woman here that is sexy enough to talk to me.
Again, confidence is key when using this pickup line, but instead of having a defiant attitude what you need to convey is “You’re definitely beautiful, and among all the woman present, I choose you…and I’m picky, so you’re going to have to deal with it…”.
3. I’m here to seduce you.
The underlying attitude to have when using this phrase is that of a man that knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to show it…he doesn’t back away from a challenge. The objective is to communicate “I like you and I will get you in bed. Let’s see if you can resist me”.
4. If you’re going to look at me that way, you can at least come talk to me.
Here confidence is crucial. With this phrase you’re saying “I know you like me, let’s see if you can have me”.
5. Are you all shy or what?! We’ve been here a few minutes already and none of you has come forward to talk to us.
The attitude you’re looking to use here is a mix of arrogance and fun. What you want to communicate to the group of girls present is “We’re really good guys, you should meet us…in any case I don’t want anything that’s too serious, so let’s just have fun”.
6. I was going to wear the very same thing. (pointing to an overtly feminine article of clothing she is wearing)
Let yourself go and have fun. Think you’re telling her “You’re cute and I want to meet you…but I don’t want to take things too seriously”.
7. Excuse me, do you know the time? (while watching your watch and making clear you have one)
Again, the secret lies in having fun. You’re communicating “I am having a good time…do you wanna join the fun?”
8. Wow! I’m sure you use that to harass the nice guys. (pointing to her big ring)
Aside from having fun try to be a bit cheeky. You want her to understand this “I want to have fun with you…and don’t worry, you can show me your wild side, I won’t judge you”.
9. Excuse me, I don’t want to be the bearer of bad news….but drinking is not allowed here. (Say this in a club or in a bar)
Come off as serious as you can, and then just give them your biggest smile. If any of them falls for it, even for a second, keep playing along.
The attitude to adopt here is “Girls, I want to meet you, but let’s make it fun…”.
10. Hi girls, sorry I’m late! How are you?
Tell this like you were friends and were supposed to meet. Confidence and the desire to have fun are key here. Don’t forget to communicate also something like “I want to have fun with you…I hope you’re just as fun”.
Having some good pua openers can help you approaching women…but remember that even when you don’t know what to say, you can still approach.
Want to learn how? Check this out.