How to score a difficult girl?
We’re talking about the type of girl that many men try to hit on and none (or almost none) succeed. Generally she’s an extremely beautiful girl…and probably a bit full of herself 🙂
Be that you already know a girl like this, or that you approach one or she’s presented to you, you’re going to find yourself in front a huge dilemma: how do you score a girl like that? How do you win over a girl that is highly sought after and never gives in to anyone?
I have some good and bad news for you…
Let’s start with the good: scoring a difficult woman is completely doable and by following what I’m about to tell you, it will be in your reach.
As for the bad news…you’re going to have to deal with a difficult girl, and it won’t be easy pickings 🙂 it goes without saying, but I have to warn you anyway.
Before I explain how to score a difficult woman, I want to explain why it’s important to do so.
3 Great Reasons to Score a Difficult Girl
Knowing how to score a difficult girl is a challenge, it’s definitely going to require a lot of effort on your part.
As with everything that requires time and energy, it’s important to justify these efforts, otherwise the sacrifice is not worth it.
If you wanted to hit on girl, even a beautiful one, you wouldn’t need to know how to seduce a difficult girl, you could concentrate your efforts on easy women or girls that already like you and take the easy street.
But you would lose many opportunities and therefore be limiting your possibilities of having more choices.
That’s why I retain that it’s very important knowing how to seduce a difficult woman:
1. It’s a Stimulating Challenge
If you like challenges, you will definitely enjoy scoring a difficult girl.
It will let you explore and express your inner strength and resources, which can be a fascinating process to experience.
2. It’s Great Training
Having to deal with a difficult woman will test your mettle and will require you to be a skillful seducer.
This means that you will have to put your best foot forward when trying to score a difficult girl, and when you do so you in turn better yourself. That’s why it’s great training.
Once you’ve trained yourself to deal with this type of woman, seducing others will seem like a walk in the park 🙂
3. There’s Something to Her
If the girl is difficult, she generally has two things going for her:
- She knows what she wants
- She’s beautiful
Difficult girls are difficult because they can have their pick of men, which implies they have a lot of social experience and that they are highly sought after. Both of which have their merits.
How to Score a Difficult Girl thanks to 4 Powerful Stratagems
Now let’s get to the meat of the article: how to seduce a difficult woman.
The 4 stratagems I’m about to explain work in any condition, whether you already know a girl like this, whether you approach one for the very first time or whether you are presented to one.
HOWEVER, if you already know her and you’re her friend, I suggest you get out of the friend zone before proceeding with what I’m about to tell you.
1. Distinguish Yourself from the Masses
As I already mentioned above, a girl plays hard to get because she has the pick of her choice when it comes to men. Have you ever lost your temper when being besieged by promoters or street vendors?
Well, the same dynamic is at play here.
This means that this type of woman has to continually deal with men that try to hit on her. This is where it gets interesting: they are all ( or almost all) the same.
In a nutshell, the men that are hitting on her are part of the mass. And the mass of men aren’t successful with women.
Distinguish yourself from the masses and you’ll already have a good starting point.
Now, I know what you’re thinking: distinguishing oneself form the masses sounds pretty generic…and doesn’t really sound like something applicable.
That’s why I want you to see it from another point of view 😉
The great majority of men (read: the masses) are unsuccessful with women. Having seduction skills that are above the norm, will already mean you’re distinguishing yourself from the masses. And to get that level you’ll have to read, study and apply what you’ll find in this blog 🙂
But let’s not limit ourselves to just this. If for example, you know a difficult woman you would you like to win over just observe the men that hit on her. How are they acting? How are they dressed? What are they expressing?
Differentiate yourself from these specific things and you will be distinguishing yourself from the masses.
2. Be Persistent
If you want to score a girl that plays hard to get, you will have to be persistent. Don’t expect her to fall at your feet at your first attempt, it’s not going to happen…
On the contrary, it’s going to take a lot of time.
At first she will be hiding behind her social mask (that of a difficult girl) and will do so for relatively long period of time.
Only by being persistent can you make her lose the mask and melt the ice away.
To give you an example, just the other day I approached a girl that was playing really hard to get, she didn’t smile (not even with her friend) and continued making snide remarks. After twenty minutes of interacting with her she finally smiled, and after that she smiled more often: she took off her social mask. Without persistence, we would have never gotten to that point.
Be careful not to confuse persistence with being pushy and annoying: persistence is attractive, being pushy is not.
What’s the difference?
A persistent man brings value to the table for a long period of time, a man that is being consistently pushy continues to take away value from the woman for a long period of time.
3. Stay in Control
A crucial factor to be able to seduce a difficult girl is the ability to stay in control. It’s really easy to get discouraged or make huge mistakes when you see that a woman doesn’t give you the time of day.
But this MUST NOT happen.
If this happens, you’ve already lost the battle.
If you let yourself get taken away by these emotions or commit huge mistakes because of it, you’re telling her she’s superior to you (in terms of value); a woman will never go to bed with a man of inferior value.
That’s why it’s fundamental, especially when trying to score a difficult girl, to stay in control.
4. Find her Weak Spot
Everyone has one or more weak spots, and difficult girls aren’t any different.
We all have something that fascinates or interests us particularly.
Even a very difficult girl can open herself and become sweet as candy, if you touch her weak spot the right way.
Finding a girl’s weak spot can be a pretty daunting task, but with a bit of intelligence you can do it. A good starting point is understanding what she spends most of her time on or what she likes doing in her free time; if you dig deep enough starting from there, there’s a good chance you can identify her weak spot.
Finding a difficult girl’s weak spot takes time, but once you do identify it, it well help you leaps and bounds.
The Trap in Seducing Difficult Girls
There’s a pretty big trap in trying to seduce a difficult girl that you have to be very careful not to fall into.
Scoring a difficult girl has its advantages, but it shouldn’t be confused with chasing after a woman that doesn’t want you.
At first glance it may seem that there’s only a subtle difference, when in reality the differences are enormous.
A difficult girl is a girl that behaves in a certain way because of her social mask; a woman that doesn’t want you is a woman that is not compatible with you.
You can win over the first one, you can’t win over the second.
Having to deal with the first one (within certain limits) has its advantages, dealing with the second is a waste of time and can also be harmful to you.
How do you tell them apart?
A difficult woman behaves in a detached/haughty/unapproachable manner with everyone (or almost everyone), a woman that doesn’t want you behaves that way only with you (or a few others) or she behaves normally around you, but when you try to take things further she puts up an impenetrable wall.
Now you have a few strategies that you can use to score a difficult girl. They may take time, but they work – use them.
And if you want some help, here’s a guide that will help you become more interesting – thus you’ll score difficult girls in a easier way.