How many times have you found yourself thinking about how to meet women?
I’m not talking about meeting a girl here and there, but how to constantly meet new women.
It would be great, huh?
Truth is meeting new girls is actually quite easy. Of course, at first glance it can seem difficult if you’re not used to meeting many new girls, but once you know the rules of the game it’s a breeze.
That’s why I’ve decided to share with you 12 great tips on how to meet plenty of new women.
12 Surefire Tricks on How to Meet Women
1. Go out at least 3 times a week
If you’re not getting out there you can’t meet new girls, it’s pretty obvious. It’s not like you can expect them to come knocking at your door. 😛
Getting out of the house is crucial. Going out means tending to your social life. The more you take care of it, more people ( and therefore women) you’ll come across with, and it will only get easier form there.
From my experience, the very least amount of times that you should be going out in a week is 3. For example, the weekend plus another day in the week (you don’t necessarily have to stay out late, you just need to get out for at least an hour).
If you’re going out less than 3 times a week, you’re seriously neglecting your social life and will find more difficulties meeting new women.
And obviously, the more you go out the easier it gets.
2. Make a lot of Female Friends
Generally, men have more male friends and women more female friends.
Consequentially the best way to meet a lot of girls is having a lot of female friends.
You’re probably thinking “easier said than done, how do I go about it?”.
The secret lies in spending time with the women you already know and act like you would with your own friends. It can take some time, but eventually you’ll gradually create some fantastic friendships.
This means you DO NOT hit on women you want only as friends. This is important.
You’re going to need a strong sense of will because you can create some very strong friendships with women, and it will be hard to resist not taking the relationship to another level.
Oh, obviously these friendships are NOT solely for the sake of getting to meet new women, you need to become friends with girls you want to be friends with. This is another rule you have to stick to, to avoid unpleasant consequences.
3. Go Out with Someone that Knows Their Way With Women
If you have a friend that studies seduction and is pretty good at it (at least) or has a natural talent with women, try to go out often with him. He doesn’t necessarily have to be an ace at it, as long as he’s pretty good at approaching women.
The reason behind it is pretty self evident: aside from the contacts you’ll be making, there will also be his, thus improving your chances of meeting new girls.
When he’ll approach a group of girls and introduce you (or you present yourself) you’ll be increasing the number of women you’re meeting in one night.
It’s as if you’ll be in warp speed on meeting new women by association.
4. Go Out With People that Have Lots of Friends
There are people that know a ton of other people. You want to go out with these type of friends as often as possible, be they men or women (and if they are women, don’t hit on them, keep it platonic).
Just by going out with these types of people you’ll be meeting plenty of new women in no time. You won’t even have to lift a finger.
5. Approach At least 10 Girls a Week
The quickest way to meet girls is by making contact with them. There’s nothing (aside from being a superstar…but let’s be realistic here 🙂 ) that can beat a cold approach to quickly meet new women.
But obviously, you have to get out there and make them!
The very least amount, to meet a decent number of women, is 10 approaches a week. If you make less than 10 you won’t be improving your chances much, unless you’re already an expert seducer…
Stop worrying: 10 approaches a week is actually a very low amount. Given that you’ll be going out at least 3 times a week, you’ll only have to approach 4 girls each time you go out (and that’s not even counting the girls you can meet during the day…).
Logically speaking, the more the better. A normal person with a normal job and hobbies that take up their time can still easily make 30 approaches a week…no excuses, time to hustle.
6. Plan parties/events/outings
You know those people that have lots of friends that we talked about in point 4?
Good…what if you became one of those people?
Difficult? Not at all. It all boils down to knowing how.
One of the most effective ways to meet new people is by planning parties, events or outings.
All you need to do is invite at least one or two people that can bring along someone you don’t already know.
Another tactic is inviting people you recently met (this will further increase the bond with them).
Before you even know it, you’ll become a great social networker.
7. Become a Yes Man
How many times have you been invited to some event or party at someone’s house that you didn’t know and you declined?
Do you know how many social connections you missed out on by doing so? Plenty.
One of the secrets to meeting lots of women, and lots of people in general, is always accepting invites.
Aside from getting to meet new people, you’ll come off as someone that is social and you’ll further strengthen the bond with the person who invited you (on the contrary, when you decline an invitation, you’re putting up a wall between you and the person that invited you).
If you continue to go out with the same people and decline invitations you can’t expect to meet new people.
8. Attend a Course
Courses are one the easiest ways to meet people…and if you choose them wisely they are an easy way to meet girls.
It depends a lot on the course, but attending a class can easily facilitate meeting 10-15 new girls. Since lots of courses are trimesters…you have the chance to meet at least 5 girls (and potential female friends) each month just for attending.
It’s left unsaid that the best courses are those where their are lots of women attending. But it’s also important that you like the course you’re taking, so try and find a middle ground to get the best of both worlds.
9. Keep in Contact with the People You Already Know
If you follow the tips in this article you’ll meet lots of girls, but also lots of people in general.
But if you don’t keep on top of them and stay in contact with the majority of the people you meet, you’re just going to slow everything down to a crawl.
On the other hand, the best thing you can do is stay in contact with the greatest number of people you meet (especially girls if you’re wanting to meet new women). Eventually you’ll be able to deepen the connection with the people you get along best with.
In due time, you’ll have a bunch of new contacts at your disposal.
10. Involve Your Friends When You Approach Girls
When you approach a group of girls always involve your friends (unless you have a good reason not to).
It might seem like something unimportant, but it certainly makes sense.
When you involve your friends in approaching a group of girls you get rid of the whole stigma of “lone wolf VS girls”, you’ll instead have a group dynamic that will tend to create more mutual trust between the two groups.
It means that you’ll have to put less effort to get things going, but mainly it’ll also be easier to stay in contact with the group of girls you’ve just met…and will therefore be easier in making them your friends.
Furthermore your friends will be rather appreciative (unless they’re ungrateful tools!) and will be more inclined to introduce you to other female friends of theirs.
11. Spur Your Friends to Approach Girls
If your the only one doing the approaching you’re risking putting forth lots of energy to get to know new women. But if your friends also pitch in, you’ll meet lots more women with a combined effort.
That’s why you should spur your friends to approach girls (perhaps setting the example and showing them it’s not that hard).
This doesn’t mean that you have to give them a lesson on seduction (at least not initially), mainly perhaps because they’re not completely open minded or because they’re not yet ready or don’t want to be given “scientific advice”.
Just encourage them to approach, no theory…just a simple “hey, it works for me, maybe you’ll want to give it a try”.
12. Become a Regular
When you hang out at the same place you can get close with the people that work there and recognize different faces that you often see there (other regulars).
This means that you’ll have the chance to meet people (and women) without having to do anything in particular.
It practically works anywhere:
- Bars and coffee shops
- Libraries and study halls
Just start out with a simple “Hello”, after 2-3 times of seeing the same person it’ll eventually lead to a “Hey, how’s it going?” and slowly but surely you’ll be having articulate conversations and getting to know this new person in no time.
The Undeniable Law of Meeting Women
Now that you know 12 great ways to meet new women I bet you can’t wait to put them to good use. Great!
But before you get out there and begin I have to warn you: there is an undeniable law on meeting girls and you should accept it before getting concrete results.
It has to do with the fact that the number of women you meet follows a “snowball effect”.
When a small little ball of snow (that you can hardly see) starts to roll down a mountain it will continue get bigger and bigger. As it gets bigger it will quickly start growing even larger and larger.
The same applies to women: if you’re not used to meeting a lot of them, you’ll start by meeting a few, as you continue to move forward you’ll keep on meeting even more and even quicker for that matter.
It all boils down to keeping up the good habits for a prolonged period of time 😉
What Lies Beyond Getting to Know New Girls…
Understanding how to meet women is of utmost importance, particularly if you want to find a girl as a fuckbuddy, but it’s simply not enough.
If you don’t apply the “right moves” to the girls you are meeting, the women you meet will remain just simple acquaintances, nothing more…at most you can find yourself friend-zoned with some of these new girls…but I’m sure you want more, right?
That’s why it’s important that you know how to completely seduce a girl beyond just getting to know her.
I know several men that know a lot of women, but they don’t end up in bed with any of them. And it’s because they neglect what follows after meeting a girl.
Knowing how to meet women and how to get them are both crucial points of seduction. They’re a bit like Ying and Yang: you can’t have one without the other.
If you want an action plan to both meet girls and seduce them, check our guide 7 Steps to Success with Women, it will help you a lot.