How to make a girl fall in love with you?
It’s a question we’ve all asked ourselves at least once in our lives…and it’s a question that no one has ever really found an answer for!
There are thousands of opinions regarding how to make a girl fall in love.
That’s exactly the point, they are opinions, no concrete facts to back them up, no scientific research to support them.
That’s why I have decided to clear the fog regarding this argument and give you an article that is definitely interesting and not very politically correct (playing with love is no small matter).
I started from my experiences and knowledge and I expanded my research with some scientific studies.
The 3 Phases of Falling in Love
One thing my experience has taught me is that I have never found myself madly in love with a woman in the initial phase of a relationship.
At the beginning it has always been a rather subtle feeling.
But with time the relationship grew stronger and things got more serious.
This has always made me think that love is something that takes time to build and it is not something that happens overnight.
The BBC sustains the same: the process of falling in love follows three phases.
Phase 1: Lust
At the start of a relationship the main driving force is lust resulting from sexual hormones (testosterone in particular).
Testosterone makes you want to have sex (for both men and women). It’s fascinating to note that having sex also produces more testosterone.
Therefore the more sex you have, the more you will want to do it.
Another very interesting thing is that having an orgasm cause a release of oxytocin, a neurotransmitter that creates a connection between the two partners. The more often a couple has sex the stronger the bond that is created between them.
Phase 2: Attraction
Sex also causes the release of dopamine, which is the true indicator of romantic love (together with noradrenaline and serotonin).
It’s in this phase that one really falls in love with someone, when you’re constantly thinking about that person.
Phase 3: Attachment
If a relationship lasts long enough one enters the phase where there is a long term attachment between partners.
In this phase oxytocin has a key role. It’s this very molecule that causes long term attachments and commitment.
As I mentioned earlier, oxytocin is released abundantly during sex, and that’s why frequently having sex helps a couple stay together.
But sex isn’t the only situation where oxytocin is released: physical contact also helps release this hormone. And from this…we can see why cuddling helps in a relationship.
3 Steps to Make a Girl Fall in Love You
So far what I’ve shared has been very interesting, but..how do you apply this from beginning to end?
Before giving you a sequence of steps to follow to make a girl fall in love with you, I need to warn you to be very careful: aside from the fact that playing with someone’s feeling is just plain wrong, if you follow these steps correctly you might find yourself with a double edged sword.
1. Win Her Over as Best You Can
To make a girl fall in love with you it’s essential you win her over first.
I’m not talking about winning her over by the narrowest of margins, I’m talking about winning her over big time, make her go crazy for you.
It means that you have to attract her like a heavy-duty electrical magnet (and to achieve this you first have to be attractive, if you don’t know how, follow this guide).
In addition, it’s important that you create a strong connection between the both of you.
And you have to know how to really excite her.
All these things will allow you to create a very stimulating relationship…to ultimately be able to carry out the next step.
2. Make Her Orgasm Frequently and Don’t be a Stranger to Cuddling
The previous step helps pave the road for a stimulating relationship, essential to being able to frequent each other often and having lots of sex.
You want to frequently have sex with your girlfriend and give her many orgasms.
As we noticed earlier, giving her an orgasm causes the release of oxytocin which is crucial in making her fall in love.
And to achieve this, you want to be sure to be pretty good in bed and to be able to last long too.
After sex, cuddling is a must: it also releases oxytocin.
Actually, not only after sex…cuddle as often as you can.
3. Maintain the Relationship
It may seem trivial, but before she falls in love with you, your relationship must stand some test of time.
If you’re not engaging in step 2 long enough, she won’t fall in love (but perhaps you will…and at the end of the article I’ll explain why).
Being Clear on the Ethical Question Regarding How to Make a Girl Fall in Love with You
Someone might think what I have described in this article is politically incorrect, but it’s not.
Many would sustain that making a girl fall in love should be a natural process where a man should not intervene in an “artificial” way.
Just like some may think that using this system to make a girl fall in love against her own will is unacceptable.
The matter of the fact is that what I have explained in this article doesn’t equate to waving a magic wand.
It doesn’t work 100% of the time, with 100% of people.
It doesn’t change or alter somebody’s own will.
What I’ve described in this article is how to make a girl fall in love if and ONLY IF she can fall in love with you.
It doesn’t matter how great you are, you won’t be able to win over every woman you come across; you can only win over the ones that are at least minimally compatible with you.
You can only create lasting and stimulating relationships with those types of girls that are very compatible with you.
No matter how skilled you are, with some women sex will just be pleasant, but not enough to keep at it for a long time, while with others you’ll wish it never ends.
And it doesn’t really matter what you do, some relationships just don’t last very long.
At the end of the day, the only women that will fall in love with you are only the ones that can fall in love with you. It won’t work with the rest.
Having a Girl Fall In Love With You: a Double Edged Sword
What I’m about to tell might seem shocking, but…it’s been scientifically proven that men falls in love easier than women.
This means that if you follow the steps above you might run the risk of falling in love with a girl that doesn’t feel the same way about you.
Of course, some will, but it’s not a given that a specific woman you’re interested in will fall in love with you.
Therefore, please use the information I have shared with you wisely.